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Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) can reshape someone’s world in profound ways—and it’s not always visible. Watching a loved one live with this mental health condition can be heartbreaking and confusing, especially when you feel unsure about how to help a loved one with PTSD. Whether you’re a friend, partner, or family member, learning to help someone you love is a powerful act of care. LightHeart Mental Health is here to assist you in navigating any difficulties and provide essential in-person and virtual mental health care services. Change begins here, and we can help.
Nearly 13 million people in the U.S. are living with PTSD each year, and it affects people of all backgrounds—not just veterans, as often assumed.1 Effective PTSD treatment is available, but the path to healing can be slow and complex. That’s why compassionate support from others can make a difference.
What is PTSD?
Post-traumatic stress disorder is a mental health condition that can develop after someone experiences or witnesses a traumatic event, such as a serious accident, sexual violence, childhood abuse, or combat. Not everyone who goes through trauma will develop PTSD—but for those who do, the lingering emotional and physical symptoms can be intense and persistent.
PTSD symptoms
Symptoms can include:
- Intrusive memories or flashbacks of the event
- Nightmares and sleep disturbances
- Intense emotional distress or physical reactions to reminders of the trauma
- Avoidance of places, people, or conversations linked to the event
- Mood swings, irritability, or emotional numbness
- Feelings of guilt, shame, or detachment from others
These are just some of the signs of PTSD, and they may show up differently from person to person. Understanding the effects of PTSD in relationships can be challenging, but it is essential to be supportive and empathetic towards your loved one who may be experiencing it.
Signs of PTSD
You might notice that your loved one has changed since the traumatic event. They might seem more distant, on edge, or easily startled. Some withdraw completely or become overwhelmed by even minor stressors.
Here are some specific behaviors to look out for:
- Withdrawing from relationships or isolating themselves
- Increased use of substances like alcohol or drugs
- Trouble concentrating or memory lapses
- Avoiding discussions about the traumatic experience
- Expressing hopelessness or feeling emotionally “numb”
Understanding that these behaviors are often symptoms—not personal rejections—can help you stay grounded as a supportive presence.
Helping a loved one with PTSD
There’s no one-size-fits-all answer, but here are a few thoughtful ways you can help:
- Listen without judgment: Allow your loved one to share only what they’re comfortable sharing, and don’t pressure them to recount the traumatic event.
- Be patient: Healing from trauma is a long-term journey. Avoid setting expectations for “getting over it.”
- Educate yourself: Learning about post-traumatic stress disorder helps you respond with more compassion and insight.
- Encourage professional care: Suggesting therapy or psychiatric support can be important, but do so gently and without force.
- Take care of yourself: Supporting someone with PTSD can be emotionally demanding. Your well-being matters, too.
How not to care for someone with PTSD
Even with the best intentions, certain actions can cause more harm than good. Here’s what to be mindful of:
- Avoid pushing them to talk: Let them open up at their own pace.
- Don’t minimize their experience: Statements like “It could have been worse” can feel invalidating.
- Don’t take symptoms personally: Angry outbursts or emotional withdrawal don’t reflect your worth.
- Avoid making decisions for them: Support their autonomy whenever possible.
PTSD can significantly impact family dynamics, creating challenges that affect communication, trust, and emotional connection. It’s important to remember that the trauma survivor isn’t the only one affected—family members may also experience stress, feelings of helplessness, or frustration. By staying patient, empathetic, and informed, families can cultivate a safe environment that supports healing for everyone involved.
What if they refuse your help
Experiencing this can be incredibly painful, but it’s not uncommon. Trauma often leads to mistrust, shame, or fear around seeking help.
In these situations, it’s crucial to gently offer resources or suggest therapy without applying pressure, while reassuring them that you’ll be there whenever they’re ready. Consistency is key—small actions like showing up and actively listening can make a significant difference. At the same time, staying connected with your own mental health supports is vital to avoid burnout.
Signs to watch for during a mental health crisis
Sometimes, PTSD symptoms can escalate into a mental health crisis. If your loved one expresses thoughts of harming themselves or others, or seems to be in immediate danger, it’s essential to act. Please encourage them to reach out for immediate support or call 988, the national mental health crisis line.
How can therapy and psychiatric care help?
At LightHeart Mental Health, we offer a range of trauma-informed treatments that support those living with post-traumatic stress disorder. Many people benefit from evidence-based therapies such as cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) or eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR), which can help process traumatic memories and reduce distress. Our therapy services are always tailored to the client’s unique needs—we know that no two healing journeys are alike.
We also provide psychiatric support and medication management for those whose symptoms may benefit from medication as part of their treatment plan. Whether you’re just beginning to explore options or already in treatment and seeking a deeper level of care, we are always available to give our clients the help they require at any time and place.
Frequently asked questions (FAQs) about PTSD
Can post-traumatic stress disorder be cured?
PTSD may not always “go away” completely, but it can be managed effectively with the proper care. Many people with PTSD learn to cope with their symptoms and lead fulfilling lives.
How long does PTSD last?
There’s no set timeline. Some people experience symptoms for months, while others may deal with them for years. Early intervention can help reduce the duration and intensity of symptoms.
Does everyone who experiences trauma get PTSD?
No. While trauma is the root cause of PTSD, not everyone who goes through trauma develops the condition. Factors like personal history, support systems, and the type of trauma all play a role.
Can therapy help with PTSD?
Yes—therapy can be a powerful tool in the healing process. Modalities like EMDR, CBT, and other trauma-informed therapies have shown strong outcomes in helping people manage PTSD symptoms.
You don’t have to do this alone—LightHeart Mental Health is here to help
Supporting someone with post-traumatic stress disorder can be both rewarding and exhausting. At LightHeart Mental Health, we’re here to walk alongside you and your loved ones as you navigate the complexities of trauma recovery. Our therapy and psychiatric care services are offered in-person and via telehealth, and our team strives to provide inclusive and individualized mental health care that’s free from stigma or bias. LightHeart Mental Health is here to help you manage your mental health. Call 425.800.5688 today to learn more.
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